{"id":165310,"date":"2022-06-11T17:51:41","date_gmt":"2022-06-11T21:51:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bestbuddies.org\/?p=165310"},"modified":"2022-06-11T17:53:31","modified_gmt":"2022-06-11T21:53:31","slug":"meet-alex-rogers-ohio-state-university-2-2-2-2-2-2-3-3-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-2-3-2-2-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bestbuddies.org\/newjersey\/youth-today-article-featuring-friendship-program","title":{"rendered":"Youth Today article highlights NJ Friendship program pair!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=&#8221;165311&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_column_text]<span style=\"color: #5a3f98\"><strong>Project pairing students with and without disabilities seeks to bolster friendships, end isolation<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>By Michele C. Hollow<\/em><br \/>\nOriginally posted on May 27, 2022, on <a href=\"https:\/\/youthtoday.org\/2022\/05\/project-pairing-students-with-and-without-disabilities-seeks-to-bolster-friendships-end-isolation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Youth Today<\/a><\/p>\n<p>After a year of remote learning and seeing each other online only, Elizabeth Mancini and Kelsey Heaney were glad to set foot on campus at The College of New Jersey last fall.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #5a3f98\"><em>\u201cI spotted Kelsey and started running towards her,\u201d Mancini said. \u201cShe saw me and ran towards me. <strong>We gave each other the biggest hug.<\/strong>\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The college sophomores still hang out together as they nurture a friendship begun through Best Buddies, an international nonprofit that pairs students without learning disabilities with students with intellectual and\/or developmental disabilities. Those pairings are in keeping with the organization goal of stemming social isolation often felt by disabled students and to integrate them more fully into society.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe weren\u2019t close when we first met. I blame it on Zoom,\u201d Heaney said, noting the constraints imposed by a year of online-only Best Buddies meetings.<\/p>\n<p>With COVID-19 restrictions eased, Mancini said, \u201cWe spend more time together when we meet in person \u2026 We can focus on one another when we\u2019re together, not on the computer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Heaney, whose traumatic brain injury results from a childhood operation that went awry, is in the career and community studies program at the college. That four-year certificate program for 18- through 25-year-old students with learning disabilities aims to prepare them for careers after college; live independently; and socialize more easily with their peers and others.<\/p>\n<p>Mancini, a special education major seeking to become a classroom teacher, heard about Best Buddies from a former high school teacher. \u201cIt sounded like a good way to make friends,\u201d she said, \u201cand increase my awareness of people who I may not have had the opportunity to connect with. Best Buddies is about inclusion. And without this program, I would have missed out on connecting with people I care deeply about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At The College of New Jersey, Best Buddies meets every other Wednesday. Events include karaoke, ice cream socials, movie nights and a recent tie-dye shirt party. \u201cThat was my favorite so far,\u201d Heaney said.<\/p>\n<p>Ice cream socials, dances, charity-fundraiser walks and other activities take place at Best Buddies\u2019 chapters around the globe. Founded in 1989 at Georgetown University by Georgetown student Anthony Kennedy Shriver, the nonprofit\u2019s current CEO and chairman, Best Buddies has more than 1.3 million participants in its 3,000 chapters; chapters are in each of the 50 United States. In the nation\u2019s Capitol and Miami, Best Buddies operates residences for people with and without disabilities.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #5a3f98\"><em>\u201cThe unprecedented challenges we faced together in 2020 has highlighted just how important our mission of inclusion is for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities,\u201d Kennedy Shriver said.<strong> \u201cThey need us now, more than ever.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Mancini was the first college classmate Heaney met who wasn\u2019t in her four-certificate program for learning disabled students. \u201cI had \u2018friends,\u2019 in high school,\u201d Heaney said, punctuating her point with air quotes. \u201cI just couldn\u2019t count on them. It\u2019s not like the friends I have now. Elizabeth listens to me and is there for me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And Heaney was Mancini\u2019s first friend on campus. They talk about sports, movies, their family and friends and school. They both play on the school\u2019s soccer and basketball teams. \u201cWe\u2019re part of a large community,\u201d Mancini said. \u201cIt\u2019s nice to have a buddy I\u2019m close with.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Disabled friendship program: Two hand-drawn outline cgharacters in yellow and orange with arms across each others shoulders with pale teal background students involved in the Best Buddies\u2019 program stay together from freshman through senior year. \u201cMany of the students remain friends long after college,\u201d said Daphne Stanfield, president of The College of New Jersey chapter of Best Buddies, noting that there are chapters in 522 middle schools, 1,389 high schools and 512 colleges across the United States.<\/p>\n<p>Mancini and Heaney said they\u2019re headed for a long-range friendship. Residents of New Jersey, they live about 90 minutes from one another by car. Mancini drives so the duo can go to the mall, to local restaurants and to one another\u2019s home. \u201cI\u2019ve learned that, despite our different abilities,\u201d Mancini said, \u201cwe share so much.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes,\u201d said Heaney. \u201cThis relationship had taught me not everyone is that different from each other. The world should be Best Buddies on a bigger scale.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>New Jerseyites Jess Lazar and Colleen Bryan, juniors on the same campus, also are interested in careers in special education. 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